Gene therapy that sounds like science fiction with Dr. Sam Mackenzie

Gene therapy that sounds like science fiction with Dr. Sam Mackenzie

February is Rare Disease Month, so on It’s a Lot, we’re doing a mini series focused on spinal muscular atrophy (SMA). My son was diagnosed with SMA a few days after he was born, and then received an incredible gene therapy treatment less than a month later. The experience was a lot to go through, as you might imagine. I’m grateful I can share our story and hopefully help other people.

For the first episode of the mini series, I talked to my son’s neurologist, Sam Mackenzie, M.D., Ph.D. I was super curious about what it’s like delivering a life-changing diagnosis to a family, what you learn in med school about empathy and bedside manner, and how Sam ended up a child neurologist in the first place. We also discussed our flawed healthcare system and his hopes for a better one as well as what people can do to help disabled folks in the U.S. If this episode makes you want to support research, the TANGO2 Research Foundation is a great option! And if you want to go more in depth on child neurology, make sure to check out Sam’s podcast, Immature Brains.

In the second half of the episode, we chat about Sam’s experiences as a father of three. He shares his thoughts on parent guilt, his existential fears about how AI will impact his kids’ lives, why risk can actually be a good thing, and lots more.

Lastly, to learn more about SMA and how you can support the community, check out Cure SMA.

Read More

2016 nostalgia is misguided and perplexing

2016 nostalgia is misguided and perplexing

For a fun little mini episode of my podcast It’s a Lot, I sat down with my producer, Chris Lindstrom, for a chat about how things are going with the show so far, some of our favorite episodes, and the bizarre 2016 trend that’s been everywhere on social media lately. Yes, 2016 was different, but it was not better. And neither were we! We both reflect on how we’ve grown and changed over the past 10 years—and how Rochester has changed too. It’s a fun discussion; I hope you’ll give it a listen!

Read More

Mad friendship & writing funny with author Leanne Toshiko Simpson

Mad friendship & writing funny with author Leanne Toshiko Simpson

On the latest episode of It’s a Lot, I spoke with fellow toddler mom Leanne Toshiko Simpson about figuring out when you’re ready to have kids, the joys of slow walks with curious toddlers, and the insidious productivity culture depicted in Thomas the Tank Engine. Leanne is also a writer, mental health advocate, and educator, so in the first half of the show, we dive into her bipolar diagnosis, navigating the mental health system, writing characters with mental illness, the joys of mad friendship, and how to write funny. It was a fun conversation and I learned a lot from Leanne’s insights on mental illness and mad community!

Read More

Chloe Corcoran says living authentically is a powerful thing

Chloe Corcoran says living authentically is a powerful thing

You know what’s a lot? Figuring out that you’re trans and then trying to navigate what the heck to do about it. You know what else is hard? Living authentically, whether you’re trans or cis. We talk about all this and more in the latest episode of It’s a Lot, featuring Chloe Corcoran, a speaker, advocate, and higher ed professional. Our conversation explores how Chloe’s competitive streak and sense of humor have helped her survive hard times, the importance of just trusting trans people, how far $20 can go when it comes to mutual aid, and more.

Read More

The truth about two under two: it's just as hard as expected, says mom Kat Eddy

The truth about two under two: it's just as hard as expected, says mom Kat Eddy

Kat Eddy, mom and owner of Katboocha, returns to It’s a Lot for a follow up about the reality of life with two kids under two! Spoiler alert: it’s really damn hard. We talked about crying in Wegmans (apparently a theme on this podcast now), getting help for postpartum anxiety, the struggles of having patience with your partner during the sleepless newborn era, and more.

We played back clips from part one of our conversation and reacted to them, which was lots of fun! Part two can be listened to as a standalone, but part one is great, so I recommend listening to that if you haven’t yet.

Read More

Eboni Jones Stewart gets real about pregnancy loss

Eboni Jones Stewart gets real about pregnancy loss

This week on It’s a Lot, librarian and bonus mom Eboni Jones Stewart joins me for a very honest conversation about her path to becoming a bonus mom and her long journey of trying to get pregnant with a biological child of her own. We discuss the scourge that is Roblox, how special (and overstimulating) it is to have living room kids, the atrocious things people (medical professionals included) say to you after a pregnancy loss, and more.

In the second half of the episode, we explore how techno-optimists have ruined social media (and possibly the world) by never considering the consequences of their actions, and discuss how Ella has learned to use her privilege to speak up and uplift others’ voices.

Read More

Author and sex & culture critic Ella Dawson on how capitalism makes it harder to create art

Author and sex & culture critic Ella Dawson on how capitalism makes it harder to create art

After following Ella’s work for years, I was delighted when we struck up an online friendship after I reviewed an advance copy of her (fantastic) debut novel, But How Are You, Really. Since then, Ella has spoken to my college students twice, chatted with me about burnout and boundaries for my business blog, and now joined me on my podcast, It’s a Lot. In this episode, we talk about the mental health impact of the post-publication adrenaline crash, coping with feelings of disappointment through finding community and having honest conversations, and the joys of interviewing other progress romance writers for Ella’s podcast, Rebel Ever After.

In the second half of the episode, we explore how techno-optimists have ruined social media (and possibly the world) by never considering the consequences of their actions, and discuss how Ella has learned to use her privilege to speak up and uplift others’ voices.

Read More

Pauly Guglielmo gets honest about paternity leave struggles & his inability to resist buying his kid a toy at TJ Maxx

Pauly Guglielmo gets honest about paternity leave struggles & his inability to resist buying his kid a toy at TJ Maxx

I had a blast chatting with Pauly Guglielmo, a food entrepreneur, radio/podcasting legend, and dad of two, about everything from our childhood traumas to the fun parts of parenthood in a special two-part episode. In part one, Pauly interviews me in his style of his podcast about entrepreneurship, The Pauly Guglielmo Show. In part two, I interview Pauly in my It’s a Lot style about the many aspects of his life that are just a lot.

Read More

Editor & dad Brendan Dabkowski shares about screentime shame & parent guilt

Editor & dad Brendan Dabkowski shares about screentime shame & parent guilt

I met my friend Brendan Dabkowski through Instagram years ago and now we’re both adjunct professor at Nazareth University. We’re also both parents of little ones and know the struggles of finding enough childcare, needing mental health support to navigate parenthood, and more! It was fun to dive deeper on these topics with a friend. My favorite parts were hearing about some of the joyful experiences of his life as a dad so far, like taking his son on long bike rides and watching his daughter light up around their new kitten!

Read More

Kat Eddy feels ready for life with two under two

Kat Eddy feels ready for life with two under two

In episode 5 of It’s a Lot, I chatted with mom and business owner Kat Eddy, the founder of Katboocha, about her expectations before becoming a mom of two kids under two. We spoke about a month before her youngest was born, so make sure to tune back in this fall when we have a follow-up conversation about the reality of two under two!

Read More